I’ll tell you more later about New Skete – the community, the life, its place in the world and in the Church. But for now, a word about its place in our preparations for getting a dog. Their main dog books – How to Be Your Dog’s Best Friend, and The Art of Raising a Puppy, are the equivalent for us of What to Expect When You’re Expecting. They emphasize – and it’s not for nothing – that it’s best to use the word “adopting” a puppy rather than “getting,” because it’s really going to entail a change of daily (and nightly) life. So, basing ourselves on these great books (each is a massively compelling read, so practical, so full of common sense) we’ve been getting the house ready, and getting ourselves psychologically and otherwise ready.

Having two cats, as we do, is one thing. That’s been pretty much nothing but great and very easy. The way I’m looking at the puppy thing is – anticipating great joys, fun, a new relationship, yes, but also lots of effort. And like with kids, a further sacrifice of freedom, of your own will. Did you think you’d be able to read just now? Or work in your home office? Think again! Puppy has to go out! It’s been a while since our kids were super-dependent – Elizabeth, the younger of our two, is 9. So we're a little out of practice. Though I have to say a part of me, though dreading some of the commitment and sacrifice, is also really looking forward to its rewards. Because what great, rewarding relationship is without commitment, right guys?